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Your wedding invitation ensemble sets the tone for your entire
wedding {where have you heard that before?}. When your guests open it up, the colors, motifs, and style all
influence their expectation of your special day. They should feel nothing but
joy and excitement for you as they turn to the response card to inform you they
will be sharing in your wedding day when… “M____________? What does that mean?”
On most traditional invitation response sets you will see,
the ominous ~ “M_______________”. We
have been asked numerous {ok, really it’s countless} times what does that
mean? Why is that there? Many individuals, maybe even you, do not know
what it stands for or why it is used. So, we decided it’s time to let the cat
out of the bag!
Allow me to introduce the infamous, M.
The abbreviation RSVP is actually a French phrase, “répondez vous sil vous plaît”. This
translates to “reply if you please”. The use of the RSVP was a French tradition
adopted throughout the years to become a standard invitation practice. It is
polite and follows proper etiquette to inform the wedding couple, by their
specified date, if you will be able to attend their big day or not {Please always send back your RSVP!}
The “M____________________”
is used to dictate who is submitting the response. The letter “M” stands for
“messeuir” or “madame” in French, which in English translates to “mister” or
“misses”.
More modern
brides have opted to replace the “M” and just simply state “Name{s}”. This takes all the guess work out and simply
states what you are looking for.
You may have even
come across some RSVP cards that do not have a designated space to write your
name. It may look like a big blank space
or empty area below the response deadline.
This is actually done intentionally for you to hand-write your response
to the couple. It’s creating a more
personal interaction between the couple and the invitees. Sometimes, especially if you cannot attend
their event, you may want to write a little note showing your happiness for the
couple and expressing your congratulations.
You can always do so on the back of the RSVP cards or inside if they are
folded notes {Hint, that’s why some RSVP
cards are folded notes vs. just single panel cards!}.
So the next time
you see the “M________________” on a response card for any important event,
most importantly for a wedding, you can
respond with confidence knowing you are completing it correctly by just signing
your name on the line.
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